And This is How Things are Spread

Dear Room Mom: I want to commend you for your attempt today to balance the usual sweet, sugary treats found at parties with more healthy options. The Valentines crafts were fun and simple enough for the kids to be thoroughly engaged. And did you notice how the veggie trays and other healthy foods were also consumed by hungry youngsters? However, I have a bone to pick with you. Why would you sabotage your efforts to promote health and wellness by bringing your sick child to the party? You know the child that the school already sent home once today because s/he had a fever of 101.6? I realize that you probably were feeling pressured to attend the party since you had volunteered to help. But I'm sure a quick e-mail or text explaining the situation would have been all the teacher needed. Those teachers are amazing at working under pressure--especially since I think there were probably at least 10 other parents in the room who could have filled in. OK, maybe you just felt like you really had to be there. I get it. So here are two more options for you to consider. First, see if a friend could watch your child for the hour your are at the party. No, you couldn't possibly ask a friend to watch your sick child because you don't want to get them sick? OK, well last resort...have your child rest in the health room at school while you help at the party. Your child will be well cared for, it will be quiet, and most importantly, s/he will not be exposing all other 21 students in the classroom to whatever "bug" s/he has! Sincerely, Nurse Graham